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Welcome Fabulous Ladies!
I’m glad you found your way here.


I am Alison Jacobson and I’m proud to say I’m living and loving midlife.

That’s not to say that I haven’t had a lot of battle wounds along the way: a bad divorce (is there any other kind?), the loss of my baby to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, another son with Intellectual Disabilities, the collapse of my business and my second marriage to a man with Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis.

But I made it through to the other side of all of it and came out stronger and happier.

I’ve learned to be a kick-ass caregiver for my disabled son and husband, and I rebuilt my business to focus on what’s important to me – helping women 40+ live their lives happy, healthy, safe and sane!

Here you’ll find tips for staying in shape that are realistic for women our age.  I’ll share with you the challenges of being a caregiver while working full time. Ready to live life on your terms without fear? I’ll share some advice on how to get there. Thinking of changing careers or ending a relationship in the second half of your life?  I’m here to help you!

Subscribe to my YouTube channel The Safety Mom for interviews with kick-ass women who are living life on their terms and loving it!

And join a community of like-minded women at My Midlife Tribe: Fabulous, Fierce Females!  who are supportive and fun – cause we’re too smart and seasoned for anything else.

Control Chaos in Your Everyday Life


Do you feel as if you’re working as fast and hard as you can but you’re not getting anywhere?

Does every day start with a massive to-do list which never gets completed?

Until you get control of your life you will never have the time to focus on your goals.

My workbook will walk you through how to prioritize, delegate and let things go!  I’ll also share with you the “3 F’s” for eliminating the squirrels running around in your head and create calmness and clarity.

I’ll guide you through how to get crystal clear on your future so that every day you can take action steps to making it a reality.

Plus, as an added bonus, I’ve thrown in a guided meditation to help you filter out the distractions that take you off course.

I know you don’t need one more thing on your plate so this is easy and quick but will help you figure out how to get the chaos under control!

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True power doesn’t come from speaking loudly but from listening quietly.

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